The Bridal Bouquet
The bridal bouquet is one of the most important elements of the bride's attire and deserves special attention. Start by selecting the colour and shape of the bouquet. The bridal bouquet should be carried low enough so that all the intricate details of your gown are visible. Using scented flowers in your bouquet will evoke memories of your wedding day whenever you smell them in the future. Carry a smaller bouquet if you're petite or if your gown is fairly ornate. A long, cascading bouquet complements a fairly simple gown or a tall or larger bride. Arm bouquets look best when resting naturally in the crook of your arm.
How to Trim your Wedding Flower Budget
For those couples looking to save a bit on their wedding budgets there are a few ways to cut down the amount you spend on flowers…
- Use wedding flowers that are in season and readily available
- Using garlands of ivy with other flowers for decorating is eye catching and inexpensive
- Use flowers from your own or family and friend’s gardens
- One can use potted plants for decorations, which one can begin to grown months before
- Carrying one larger, more dramatic flower suits some wedding dresses, brides and bridesmaids more than carrying a bouquet
- If there is another wedding taking place in your church or synagogue on the day of or the day before, consider splitting the cost of wedding ceremony flowers with the other bride
- Most brides nowadays arrange to have the flowers from the church or synagogue moved to the reception to be used again.
Floral Checklist
Each wedding is unique and varies by individual preference and faith. Below is a checklist to bear in mind when budgeting, planning and ordering your wedding flowers. This is merely a guideline as the following is based on the traditional wedding.
Bridal Party and Family
Bride- bouquet and flowers for hair
Bridesmaids/ matron of honour- bouquet and/or flowers for hair
Flower girl- bouquet, basket with petals, and flowers for hair
Bride's mother, groom's mother, grandmothers and stepmothers- corsage
Groom, best man, groomsmen, ushers, ring bearer, fathers, grandfathers, stepfathers- boutonniere
Ceremony Decorations
Main altar, side arrangements, candelabra, candle flowers, kneeling bench, arch, huppah, canopy, tent decorations, pew decorations, chairs aisle candelabras, guestbook table, aisle runner, door wreath and floral garland.
Reception Decorations
Bridal table/head table arrangements, guest table centrepieces, table and chair accent flowers, garlands, cake flowers, cake table arrangement, buffet table arrangements, bar and beverage table arrangements and gift table arrangement.
Flowers and Their Meaning
Most flowers traditionally have been assigned some sort of meaning. When choosing which flower to use on your wedding day, it may be a nice touch to choose flowers that have the same meaning as you would like at your wedding, in your marriage and your life. Learn to speak the language of flowers!
| Flower Name |
Meaning |
Flower Name |
Meaning |
| Acacia |
Friendship |
Acorn |
Life, immortality |
| Alliums |
Unity |
Alyssum |
Incomparable worth |
| Amaryllis |
Pride, Beauty |
Ambrosia |
Reciprocated love |
| Anemone |
Forsaken |
Angelica |
Inspiration |
| Apple Blossom |
Preference |
Arbutus |
Thee only do I love |
| Arum Lily |
Ardour |
Azalea |
First love |
| Bachelor's Button |
Celibacy, hope |
Begonia |
Beware |
| Bluebell |
Humility |
Bridal Rose |
Happy love |
| Buttercup |
Riches, childishness |
Camellia (red) |
You are a flame in my heart |
| Carnation (pink) |
I'll never forget you |
Carnation (red) |
My heart aches for you |
| Carnation (white) |
Innocence |
Carnation (yellow) |
Rejection |
| China Rose |
Ever new beauty |
Chrysanthemum (red) |
I love you |
| Chrysanthemum (white) |
Truth |
Chrysanthemum (yellow) |
Sighted love |
| Clematis |
Mental beauty |
Clover |
Good luck |
| Coral Bells |
Challenge |
Coreopsis |
Always cheerful |
| Cosmos |
Modesty |
Crocus |
Youthful gladness |
| Cyclamen |
Good-bye |
Daffodil |
Unrequited love |
| Dahlia |
Dignity, elegance |
Daisy |
Innocent |
| Dandelion |
Faithfulness, happiness |
Fern |
Magic, fascination |
| Fern (Maiden hair) |
Secret bond of love |
Foxglove |
Insincerity |
| Gardenia |
Secret love |
Geranium |
I prefer you, folly |
| Geranium (Ivy) |
Bridal favour |
Gladiolus |
Sincerity |
| Heather (Lavender) |
Admiration |
Heather (White) |
Protection, wishes come true |
| Hibiscus |
Delicate beauty |
Holly |
Domestic happiness, festivity |
| Hollyhock |
Ambition |
Honeysuckle |
Country beauty |
| Hyacinth (Blue) |
Constancy |
Hyacinth (Purple) |
Please forgive me |
| Hyacinth (Red/Pink) |
Playful |
Hyacinth (White) |
Loveliness |
| Iris |
A message for thee |
Ivy |
Wedded love |
| Jasmine |
Social |
Jonquil (daffodil) |
Desire |
| Lady's Slipper |
Flighty |
Larkspur (Pink) |
Fickleness |
| Lavender |
Devotion, cautious |
Lilac (Purple) |
First love |
| Lilac (White) |
Youth |
Lily (Day) |
Coquetry |
| Lily (Tiger) |
Wealth, pride |
Lily (White) |
Purity, virginity |
| Lily of the Valley |
Increased happiness, sweetness |
Lotus Flower |
Rejected love |
| Magnolia |
Love of nature, nobility |
Marigold |
Cruelty, jealousy |
| Marjoram |
Blushes, mirth |
Mint |
Virtue |
| Mistletoe |
Affection |
Morning Glory |
Affection |
| Moss |
Charity, maternal love |
Myrtle |
Love, home |
| Narcissus |
Egotism |
Oleander |
Caution |
| Orange Blossom |
Purity, eternal love, marriage |
OrangeFlower |
Chastity |
| Orchid |
Love, beauty |
Pansy |
Thoughts, consideration |
| Peach Blossoms |
I am your captive |
Peony |
Happy life |
| Petunia |
Resentment, anger |
Phlox |
Our souls are united |
| Pine |
Hope, pray |
Polyanthus |
Price of riches |
| Poppy (Red) |
Pleasure |
Poppy (White) |
Consolation, eternal sleep |
| Poppy (Yellow) |
Wealth, success |
Primrose |
I can't live without you |
| Primrose (Evening) |
Inconsistency |
Purple Clover |
Husbandry, thrift |
| Queen Anne's Lace |
Haven |
Quince |
Temptation |
| Ranunculus |
Radiant with charm |
Rhododendron |
Danger |
| Rose (Bridal) |
Happy love |
Rose (Dark crimson) |
Mourning |
| Rose (Dark pink) |
Thank you |
Rose (Peach) |
Enthusiasm, desire |
| Rose (Pink) |
Perfect, you're lovely |
Rose (Red) |
I love you |
| Rose (White) |
Innocence, secrecy |
Rose (Wild) |
Simplicity |
| Rose (Yellow) |
Joy, friendship, jealousy |
Rosebuds (Red) |
Purity |
| Rosebuds (White) |
Youth |
Rosemary |
Sweet remembrance |
| Sage |
Domestic Virtue |
Smilax |
Loveliness |
| Snapdragon |
Deception, gracious lady |
Spider Flower |
Elope with me |
| Spirea |
Victory, conceit |
Star of Bethlehem |
Purity |
| Statice |
Sympathy, remembrance |
Stephanotis |
Happiness in marriage |
| Stock |
Lasting love |
Sunflower |
Adoration |
| Sweet Peas |
Good-bye, blissful pleasure |
Sweet William |
Gallantry, bravery |
| Tansy (Wild) |
Declaration |
Thyme |
Activity |
| Tiger Flower |
Befriend me |
Tuberosa |
Illicit pleasures |
| Tulip (Red) |
Believe in me |
Tulip (Variegated) |
Beautiful eyes |
| Tulip (Yellow) |
Hopeless love |
Veronica |
Fidelity |
| Violet (Blue) |
Watchfulness, I'll always be true |
Violet (Purple) |
Faithfulness |
| Violet (White) |
Let's take a chance |
Viscaria |
Will you dance with me? |
| Water Lily |
Purity of heart |
Wheat |
Friendliness, fertility |
| White rose bud |
Awakening love |
Zinnia (Magenta) |
Lasting affection |
Zinnia (Mixed)
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Thinking of an absent friend |
Zinnia (Scarlet) |
Constancy |
| Zinnia (White) |
Goodness |
Zinnia (Yellow) |
Daily remembrance |
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